Sunday Service: Can We Accept Everything About a Person?

Peter Kowalke

Week of March 22 – 28, 2015

This week we bring you a spiritual talk from our archives. We’ve published or reprinted so many spiritual talks over the years, sometimes it is good to go back and reprint some of the earlier work; this site is too deep to fully explore, so many gems can get lost or overlooked.

It is worth noting that we also have pages devoted to faiths other than Vedanta that highlight spiritual talks we have delivered in the context of those faiths. These pages include Christianity, Buddhism and Islam right now. All of our talks are in the context of Vedantic truth, of course, but these pages help bridge the gap between religions and share truth that otherwise go unnoticed in the Vedanta tradition.

So here you go.

Enjoy, and happy Sunday! Peace be unto you. Peace be unto all.

Yours in service,


This Week’s Spiritual Talk

Can We Accept Everything About a Person?Accept people for who they are

By: Peter Kowalke

Can we actually accept every part of a person? Yes, we can. I have done it. And maybe you will call me saintly for this ability, but I firmly believe that it is something we all can do if we learn how and work at it. I give workshops on how to learn to accept, so I know it can be learned. I am writing a book about loving like a saint, although I will have to give it a different name because most people don’t realize that loving like a saint is good. That’s the bigger problem–people don’t want to love like that! They are taught it is bad to accept.

But what they do is mistake accepting for agreeing. They think if they accept then they are agreeing with the behavior. You can accept the murderer without agreeing that murder is a good thing. Accepting comes from loving someone as yourself, truly loving them. Agreeing is a logical process that has nothing to do with love or God.

Because of this there also is the real possibility to love the sinner but hate the sin. Most people are not being truthful when they say that they love the sinner and hate the sin—they are just paying lip service. But it is possible to love the sinner and hate the sin. Loving the sinner is easy because we all are sinners. None of us is perfect, yet we love ourselves. So why can’t we love other people who also are not perfect? We can.

Learning to accept is a process, however. A process of love.

True Love

You can’t love deeply unless you know someone. Loving without knowing someone is guesswork–it is loving the idea of them, not loving them. Or it is loving an impermanent part of them like their looks or the way they treat other people. When you love someone for the wrong reasons, that is called a crush.

(read more)



videoVedanta Television

American Vedanta on YouTube

Finding lasting happiness. Applying the Bhagavad Gita to daily life. Learning about the history of Vedanta in the U.S. These are some of the topics covered at American Vedanta’s YouTube channel. We curate a list of spiritual videos that will help advance your spirituality and expand your mind. When wanting spiritual videos, give our YouTube channel a look.

We also recommend other resources such as Booksaudio lectures and web sites, among other resources.


Spiritual Fitness

Do You have a Spiritual Routine?

Vedanta, if not practical, has no other relevancy. The key to practical Vedanta is an individualized spiritual routine.

There are six components of a good spiritual routine.

Swan1. Find a Community. If you have an existing church, temple or mosque, attend regularly. If not, join our Facebook group and see our list of recommended spiritual organizations.

2. Seek Guidance. Find a mentor within your existing spiritual community or contact us for a referral.

3. Attend Spiritual Services Regularly. If you don’t live near an appropriate spiritual community, we offer a weekly spiritual talk delivered by email, Facebook and Twitter. We also host a regular Vedanta Dinner for those who live in the New York City area.

4. Incorporate Individual Study. We keep a list of books and resources for your individual study needs.

5. Take Responsibility for Your Spiritual Life. Read our talk about listening to your own inner compass and contact us when you have a question that your spiritual community isn’t answering adequately.

6. Leverage Rituals Thoughtfully. As an example, read our essay about the power of saying grace.

Our longer talk about spiritual routine can be found here.

Happy Sunday! Peace be unto you. Peace be unto all.

Comments are closed.

close window

Service Times & Directions

Weekend Masses in English

Saturday Morning: 8:00 am

Saturday Vigil: 4:30 pm

Sunday: 7:30 am, 9:00 am, 10:45 am,
12:30 pm, 5:30 pm

Weekend Masses In Español

Saturday Vigil: 6:15pm

Sunday: 9:00am, 7:15pm

Weekday Morning Masses

Monday, Tuesday, Thursday & Friday: 8:30 am

6654 Main Street
Wonderland, AK 45202
(513) 555-7856